ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴅᴏᴇs ᴀ ᴄʜʀɪsᴛɪᴀɴ ᴍᴀɴ ʟᴏᴏᴋ ғᴏʀ ɪɴ ᴀ ғɪᴀɴᴄé?
answered by:
MAR•TEZ | @whoistez
/mahr•tez/
🤍 e n g a g e d
💭 ғʀᴏᴍ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏᴍᴀɴᴀɪʀᴇ character + integrity will tell you about a person every single time! it is one of the most important values that i have, so i love how it is a need or requirement for someone like him. (it goes back to the indicators of a soulmate - your needs will be their values). i already knew that Martez’s commentary on this topic would be impactful, bc the life he lives as a man that is going to married is very different than the life he may have been living before. as someone who always steps to the challenge, + has always followed God, first, from day 1, i am so honored to stand beside him as his future wife. 🤍 as we grow in Christ, ask yourself who’s character do i resemble the most? God’s or the world? i ask myself this often when i’m interacting w/others or even when i’m reading the Bible!
a wife of noble character will always hold weight. people are interested in, attracted to, + respectful of talent, looks + external things. God is impressed by character. this is who you truly are, + the character of a person is who you’re dating. not their bank account, their Instagram photos or the opinions of others.
a person may give to the needy, but is their motive selfless? a person may make you laugh, but do they laugh at what hurts you? a person may compliment how you look, but do they truly hear you when you speak + care for your concerns?
ask yourself today, what does my character say about me? what do my decisions say about me? what do my private practices say about me? what do my thoughts say about me? if you don’t like what you see, bring it before the Lord🙏🏽
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