so if i’m messy + you’re messy, then we can conclude that relationships must be messy as well! 🥺
messy + messy = messy!
i feel like we can all agree that dealing w relationships of all kinds can put anyone on a therapist’s couch. although they are a source of beauty, they can also be a large source of our pain as well.
today we will discuss how to accept, monitor + if need be, cut off the messy in relationships.
ᴘʀᴇss ᴘʟᴀʏ + watch my sis whitley as she learns how to ʀᴇʟᴀx, ʀᴇʟᴀᴛᴇ, ʀᴇʟᴇᴀsᴇ 🤣 because as messy as we are, the beauty of relationships deserve a fighting chance if we can help it.
Mess in relationships have a very strong effect. Bitterness, rage, and anger are only a few of them. However there is a remedy to these afflictions.
Forgiveness is something that we all struggle within our own right. See most of us feel that if we forgive we are giving up power. The power to protect ourselves from future mess and power of control. However, there are times when God will tell you to forgive and move on and there are times when God will tell you to forgive and set boundaries that way you are encouraging healthy relationships that are subjected to growth.
It’s helpful to remember that forgiveness is a journey, it doesn’t happen overnight. You deserve to give and recieve love freely, without fear of MESS!
i truly believe that Dharius Daniels does a phenomenal job on this specific topic when it comes to “relationships” + the mess that they can bring. rather than focusing on removing mess from people, he teaches on how to manage the mess + categorize it so that it isn’t harmful to you. click the link + check out his IG post below ⬇️
I think at some point of our life we have all came to this realization.
I struggled with having a God complex. Constantly thinking maybe I can make this person change, or if I can make them get it they can be the person for me. I’m sure you’ve had these same thoughts.
But this was never our burden to carry, We weren’t created to be a savior, We were created to be a vessel. I realize now that it’s easier to learn and grow then to force and settle in what I think I need. God sees the bigger picture he knows what’s necessary for our existence. So I chose to trust the lover of my soul🤍
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